The Strong Bond

Daddy's love for Lunz Lunz is really undeniable. They have been together for more than 2 years now and things has been developing pretty well. Every single moment better than before. I'm happy for the loving and strong bond that exist between the both of them. In short, they are inseparable. Actually, men, they can take good care of their kids when the wife is not around. Trust them. They can indeed do very well. It's just that they depend mostly on the wife to carry out the duties when the wife is around. Hahaha.....so, women should let loose and let their husbands do some of the child caring duties.

Back to daddy. I once told him that, if you love someone, you will start to sacrifice for him/her unconditionally. It's called the unconditional love. You will start to do things automatically for him/her because you love him/her. Well...it seems like he understands my point now because he does in fact loves Lunz a lot.

Some of things that I noticed from them were:

1. Lunz always wanted to go to his daddy's house as if he lives there already.
2. Lunz respects daddy and always behave well in front of him, where as he always bullies me.
3. Daddy downloaded and saved a lot of songs, movies and video clips from the internet for Lunz.
4. Daddy takes good care of Lunz in a sense that sometimes when I'm not free, he will bath him, change him and make milk for him without me asking him to do so.
5. There is always a playing session between them before bedtime every night.
6. Daddy was there everyday for Lunz on his first week of school. He even took 3 days of leave just to be with him and encouraged him.
7. He supported Lunz's monthly school fees financially.
8. Daddy will miss Lunz a lot when we are back at my mum's house. He told me that. He even told me he missed his son so much when we went for vacation recently.
9. Daddy also has all these separation anxiety feelings whenever he sends Lunz to school.
10. Daddy educate, care, love and protect Lunz in every way a father does.
11. Lunz sticks to daddy like a leech.

And the rests were history. It was uncountable and unable to define the strong relationship they have for each other. Daddy also understands now the theory of raising children is not to expect returns from them. It's a responsibility for parents themselves to bring up their own children. And how they later behave or react back upon us is something beyond our control. As long as we provide them with good understanding and upbringing, our duties are fulfilled. This is called the parents unconditional love. To give and expect no returns. :)